Mini-Conundrum
Ok, here’s the setup: you have suspected something about a friend, you’ve heard it from other people too, but they themselvesĀ haven’t said anything to you. Then by chance, through no real fault of your own, you find out a piece of information that confirms your suspicions. This info was not meant for you, but never the less you now have it and can’t unlearn it.
Do you confront the person? Given that they may be a tad embarassed both by the info you learnt and by you having found out, do you shortcut whatever timeline they had for telling you? Do you force the issue or sit back and wait for it to come out naturally when they are ready, trying to act as you always have though you know something you shouldn’t?
Right now I am feeling kindacurious...
curious...