Love what you do

Every now and again mealtime at my house brings forth the experimental side of my mother. I have no problem eating new foods but I do have a problem when she is not eating. It seems to me that one should beware of the chef who won’t eat his own cooking. :-D

This is a principle which extends to many areas of life. Outside of those spheres where a conflict of interests could be a problem, would you trust your money to someone who doesn’t invest his own, an accountant who cooks his own books, a lawyer who breaks the law as easily as he breathes? One of my classic examples is the doctor with the unhealthy lifestyle. I have a problem with someone telling me what I should be doing is… and then stepping outside to light up a cigarette. “Physician, heal thyself” comes to mind.

Here’s another example - could you follow a priest or minister that doesn’t believe in what he preaches in the pulpit. “Practice what you preach” sounds so cliched now but is surprisingly applicable. Francis Wade of Moving back to Jamaica and Chronicles from a Caribbean Cubicle makes this point in his post Doing What Is Loved as he discusses a bank VP who won’t use his own bank’s branches and a newspaper editor who doesn’t read her own paper when it offends her.

The disturbing part here is these people not only have no love and passion for what they do but they also lack respect for their field. Yet they expect you to trust them and invest your hard-earned money and time with them. This is why employee stock programs appear in companies all over the world. If your employees don’t believe in the company enough to invest, why should anyone else?

My conclusion - follow your heart. Find what it is that you are passionate about and then spend your life pouring yourself into it. Your passion will sell if that is what you seek.  

Right now I am feeling kinda tired (yawn) emoticon tired (yawn)...
Musings on People that flowed from my brain at 9:20 am Wednesday, Apr. 5, 2006

6 Comments »

Comment by Adrian

April 5, 2006 @ 9:27 am

Well said.

Comment by Le-Anne

April 5, 2006 @ 4:45 pm

I hear you and agree with you. But it’s not as easy as that. And life is tricky: you may find a passion and a few years down the line it’s gone. It’s hard for one to motivate themself and if noone is there to do it…

Comment by bianca

April 5, 2006 @ 4:50 pm

Well one of my points is if you lose passion for what you are doing, you need to do something else. :-)

And I am not suggesting that it is easy but the first step is recognizing that it needs to be done. It is the kind of thing that can only come from inside, noone else can truly bring it out of you if you don’t feel the passion in yourself.

Comment by Francis

April 5, 2006 @ 6:00 pm

A very good book on this topic is “The Answer to How is Yes” by Peter Block.

I just finished reading it, and need to go back to really understand more of it in a few weeks or months. He talks about the courage it takes to live a life of authenticity.

I remember hearing the following story from a book called “The Soul of Money.”

Would you take US$1m to run around the block naked?

How about US$10m?

(At some point, we start to consider it seriously, even when we realize that we would be “selling out” something important, albeit for a lot of good money.)

Now, how much would you take to sit in a job that you don’t like with people that you detest for 10 years? 20 years?

Hmm.

Comment by owen

April 5, 2006 @ 8:49 pm

sometimes its not wether you believe in it or not but how much reponsibility you actually have. people with no responisbility really don’t need to have confidence in something they have no control over. and sometimes its all about the money.

Comment by bianca

April 5, 2006 @ 9:48 pm

Francis - I have had that discussion about there being a price for everything before. I have to admit for US$10m I would do a lot of things I wouldn’t otherwise. :mrgreen:

Owen - Responsibility is definitely a factor but at the same time someone with a passion for their field even with little responsibility would find what it is that is important about what they do and make it worth doing well.

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